"I work in the ER. I probably see Sickle Cell patients 2-3 times a week. They come in, in pain; they leave in pain; they are hospitalized because of pain. You are on relatively low amounts of pain medication; you haven't been hospitalized in almost a year; and your health is incredibly stable. How do you manage your illness so well?"
My response was, "I eat healthy; I drink plenty of water; I get the amount of sleep I need. I don't smoke, drink or do recreational drugs or abuse the medications I have. I have an amazingly supportive family. I manage my stress. I know what my limits are, and I live within those limits. I listen to my body. I know what it takes to stay as healthy as possible and out of the hospital, and I do those things."
This doctor was absolutely speechless. He literally sat there at a loss for words. He went on to say, "These patients I see, they are younger than you; in their 20's. Even though you have a more severe form of Sickle Cell, you are in your 40's and far more stable. I can't believe how well you manage your illness."
I couldn't help but be moved by his level of awe. It was quite flattering. I told him about my blog and gave him the web address. We went on to say:
"I am SO GLAD glad to have met you. I now have something to tell my patients; and I can give them your blog."
My purpose in sharing this experience is not to boast, but hopefully inspire. Yes, living with Sickle Cell really stinks. There are a great many things we cannot enjoy without severe consequences. It is easy to feel like we are missing out on life, fun, and enjoyment. But I assure you, there is much life to live, fun to be had, and enjoyment to....enjoy. We simply have to use restraint, know our boundaries, and do what is necessary to stay healthy.
I encourage you to learn from your own experiences. Listen to what your body tells you and take care of it by: eating healthily, getting the amount of rest you need, and drinking plenty of water. Abstain from harmful substances. Manage your stress. Find hobbies and activities that bring you joy. Manage your illness as best as you can. Yes, even when you do all these thing, you are still going to be hospitalized, experience complications and have pain crises. But you can reduce how frequently you experience those things by taking care of your mind and body.
Be at peace my friends. May God be with you.
Life IS Worth Living!